What are you looking for?
I'm guessing that you are looking for the same thing that most people are looking for:
The comfort and security of a love relationship that endures, evolves and excites both partners
A place where we can be ourselves and continue to grow
A relationship that provides the trust and safety that allows for risk and vulnerability to develop and that helps each person to become their best self
Whether you are an individual, a couple, or a parent, you have the ability to create great relationships. I know that you can learn to be intentional, creative and successful in love. Whatever your learning style, you will gain skills that you can begin to implement immediately to grow and deepen your relationship. You decide what you want to accomplish and I will help you get there.
What can you expect from relationship coaching?
Practical and research-based strategies that you can use right away
A focus on the present and the future
The assumption that you are capable of great things and great love
The tools you need to take personal responsibility and create success in your most important relationship
"I began working with Debby before I was engaged. I had just come out of a difficult relationship and needed perspective and healing. Her coaching style was the perfect mix of challenge and support and I loved how practical her approach was. About a year later, when I met the man of my dreams, she worked with us to navigate some tough issues that came up around the areas of commitment and sexuality. We recently got married and Debby was a guest of honor at our wedding!"
—Cindy and Mike
Is your marriage in trouble?
Even if you or your partner have one foot out the door, or if your daily interactions are toxic and exhausting, and even if you are feeling trapped and lonely, there is still hope for your marriage. Regardless of how discouraged you feel right now, I know that there are many more possibilities and much more potential than you can currently see.
I can help you to stop doing what isn’t working, and to start doing things that will get you better results. I will show you how to get yourselves out of automatic pilot so you can begin to invest in your marriage intentionally, in ways that encourage change.
Barring extreme dysfunction, (such as persistent abuse or addiction), I believe that your marriage can be saved, and I will help you do it.
Relationships as a spiritual practice
Everyone wants to be happy and for most of us, happiness comes in and through our important relationships. These relationships are also the places where most of our significant spiritual and emotional growth occurs. In other words, the development of our hearts and souls continues within our relationships and helps us to grow our capacity for love.
Approaching our relationships with this kind of intention and expectation, makes a huge difference in the outcome. If we are expecting internal growth in our relationships, we are more apt to notice and appreciate the opportunities when they appear. If we enter into relationships with the intention to grow, we find ourselves more in control of creating the relationships we deeply desire.
No matter where we are at in our love relationships, with parents, children, lovers and partners, we can become kinder and more confident, and we can graduate into deeper levels of heart. We can always start over, and we can always learn more about loving. Our capacity for love is endless!
let's get started
Which of your important relationships would you like to strengthen and improve? Let's start exactly where you're at, and let me teach you some simple, yet profound tools that you can begin to use right away!
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